THE monarchy is a funny thing, isn’t it?

Like most of us, I’ve grown up with the Queen as a permanent fixture of life, and I thought she was great.

But things change, and this weekend we celebrated the Coronation of the new King, Charles.

One suggested feature of the Coronation service was a national pledge of allegiance, and I understand why some people were reluctant to take part – Who is this man, really; and what has he done for us?

For me, it raised the question of respect.

The monarchy is one of those institutions that we’re expected to respect, regardless of the incumbent or our personal views.

There are, of course, many others. But simply holding the title of pastor, teacher, councillor or even king doesn’t in itself make us worthy of respect. What matters is who we are, and how we live up to that title.

Are we using our positions in life to demand something of others, or are we utilising those positions to make a difference?

That’s not to say that respect must always be earned.

It costs us nothing to treat everyone we meet with a level of respect that pays no attention to their situation in life.

Someone’s disadvantages, or even their choices, are not a reason to look down on them.

Instead, perhaps, we could offer compassion, generosity, and support; given in the respectful awareness that we’re all just people, doing the best we can in a difficult world.

I’m always struck by the example of Jesus.

Regardless of your views about His personal status, we read of Him encountering an incredibly diverse selection of people, from kings and governors to prostitutes and thieves – all are treated with respect and love, regardless of how they themselves view and treat Him.

And whilst I cannot claim to always match Jesus’ example, I believe it’s one worth emulating.

So as Charles’ face slowly rolls out across our currency, stamps and assorted souvenir chinaware, may it remind us that everyone, king or otherwise, is worthy of our time and compassion.

May we do our best to earn the respect of others, and may we treat everyone with generosity and respect in turn.

Dave Poulson

Associate Pastor

Crediton Congregational Church